Today’s
homily I will focus on the law of forgiveness also called the law of retaliation which was before the time of Jesus and how Jesus elevated the law of forgiveness. I will also
speak about how we are to treat our body and the bodies of others, as
temples of the Holy Spirit.
In
the Gospel, Jesus teaches us to forgive. Before the time of Jesus,
the Israelites were given what was called the law of retaliation.
Jesus refers to this law in today’s Gospel, when He said, “An
eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth”.
What does eye for an eye and
tooth for a tooth mean?
Before
the law of retaliation was given to the Israelites, when someone was
injured or offended, they would return the injustice by vengeance,
which was often time, worse than the original offense. But the law of retaliation prevented this.
Rather, for
example, if you punched someone in the face and it caused him to go
blind in one eye,
he could legally hit you in your
eye to cause you to go blind in one eye. Or if you were hit in the
mouth, and a tooth
broke off, you could hit him
in the mouth and cause one
tooth to break off. Without
the law of retaliation, one
would break more than one tooth or cause both eyes to go blind
through returning an injury.
Because of the law of
retaliation, the dispute was supposed to be taken to a judge, who
would be sure that no one would respond in a way that did more harm--
than the harm that was done to them.
In
the New Testament, Jesus established
an even greater advance with
regard to forgiveness and mercy. He said, “If
someone strikes you on your right cheek, turn the other to him as
well”. “If someone presses you into service for one mile, go with
him for two miles.”
The
Christian is to submit to an injustice, rather than retaliating in a
spirit of anger. The Christian should therefore, prepare to bear
injuries for the glory and honor of God and the salvation of souls,
rather than to return punishment to the one who hurt us.
Yet,
this does not mean we should always
patiently submit to personal injuries. For example, when Jesus was
struck on the face by the servant of the high priest, Our Lord said,
“If I have spoken
wrongly, bear witness to the wrong, but I have spoken rightly, why do
you strike me?’ In
another words, because Jesus didn’t submit to the injustice, it
prevented the servant from doing it again, and therefore, prevented
the man from committing an additional sin.
Jesus
wants to help us to understand--at times, it is better to virtuously,
put up with injustice, and at other times---it is better to defend
oneself, with the goal of helping to bring someone to repentance.
When
I was in 6th
grade, I had an
8th
grade friend,
who
I will call Billy the bully. Billy
is not
his real name.
In 6th
grade, I
weighed
maybe 90
pounds. Two years older than I, Billy
was tall, weighed
180 pounds and was very strong.
He
used to pick me up over his head and threaten to throw me across
the yard, but
he never did. When we wrestled,
he would pin
me down for
a long time, which
greatly angered me. He
would pick me up and squeeze me with a bear hug for about 10 minutes,
which caused me to be angry at him because I felt helpless. He
wanted to prove how strong he was. He would tighten his stomach
muscles and
tell me to hit him in the gut, as hard as I could. Out
of obedience, I
threw
my
hardest punch in his gut,
but
he would just laugh and tell me to do it again. He never once
flinched.
One
day, when he wasn’t
looking,
I landed
the hardest punch
I
could, in
his very soft gut.
I was shocked. It
didn’t seem
to bother him at all. However, he
returned
the punch
in
my
gut
and I doubled over and fell to the ground. I couldn’t breathe. I
had the
wind knocked out
of me.
Once I was able to breathe, I went
home crying. Seeing
my
pain,
he kept apologizing,
“I’m sorry, I
shouldn’t have hit you that hard.”
I
was angry at him for a long time. I should have forgiven him, especially since he made it known he was sorry, but I didn't.
So
now
let’s
remember, the Old testament rule, an eye for an eye and tooth for a
tooth. According
to the law of retaliation, he
had a right
to
hit
me, as
hard as I
hit him. But,
we
were just kids and goofing around, we had no idea about the law of
retaliation.
However,
based
upon the new law, given by Jesus, it would have best
if Billy turned
the other cheek and perhaps warned me not hit him without his
permission, and if I would do it again the future, he
may
retaliate. But as young kids, neither of us had that in mind and we
were just playing
around.
The
next question is, if someone gives
you permission to
hit him,
is
it okay? When I was in high school, I took a summer Karate boxing class. I was a very small young man, maybe weighed 120 at the
most. But I was absolutely vicious when boxing. In fact, I never lost
a match. No matter, the size of my opponent, all were afraid of me. I
had absolutely no empathy towards my
opponents.
I could care less if I caused them pain. It
was understood we each had each other’s permission to hit each
other because that was part of the game.
We
wore
different
color belts
(white,
yellow, brown, the
coach wore a black belt).
We
would
get a
certain number of points
if we
kicked
or
punched our opponent depending
on if we
hit
them in the head or the torso, or
if it was our foot or our boxing glove etc..
One
day, I punched a kid and he flew back and landed
on his back. The coach blew his whistle, got into my face and said,
“What are you
doing! Your not supposed to hit your opponent as hard as you can,
your only supposed to make contact!”
It
was at that moment, I realized there was something wrong with me,
that
I
wanted
to hit someone as hard as I could, and not care if it caused him
pain. After that, I lost
all matches. I was afraid to hit my opponents.
What
was beneath, that rage, that viciousness, that lack of caring for
another human being? I will give you a hint, in
the first reading, it said, “Take
no revenge and cherish no grudge against any of your people. You
shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
It
took me years to understand why I did, what I did. Beneath that rage,
that viciousness, that lack of caring for others, was a grudge
and a
desire
for revenge, that
I didn’t even know I had. Guess, where it came from? It came from
Billy,
the
bully. I
saw Billy
in my
opponents. I
wanted to get even with Billy. And saw my opponents as though they were him.
What
I really needed to do was to forgive him.
And once I forgave, the anger and
desire for revenge
went away. As
it said in the first reading, “Take
no revenge and cherish no grudge against any of your people. You
shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
Is
there anyone, you need to forgive? Its as simple, as saying, “Jesus,
I forgive Billy”. Or I forgive my mother or my father, or my sister
or my friend or the bully at school. With forgiveness comes peace in our heart and we should
confess our unforgiveness or a grudge in confession too.
But,
if
you have
someone’s
permission,
is
it okay, to hit them, even
if
they
might
get injured?
In
the second reading St. Paul said, “Brothers
and sisters: Do you not know that you are the temple of God, and that
the Spirit of God dwells in you? If one destroys God’s temple, God
will destroy that person; for the temple of God, which you are, is
holy.”
Why
do you think St. Paul made this statement? What was going on during
his time? There were large amphitheaters, where thousands of people
would watch gladiators fight to death. Or gladiators would fight wild
animals. The people would cheer when another gladiator struck his
opponent severing his arm or
if he loped off his head.
Don’t
you think it would be seriously sinful to take pleasure in watching
another person get seriously wounded or to be killed?
Perhaps
that is why St.
Paul wanted to remind the people of Corinth, our body is temple of
the Holy Spirit.
When
I was in 7th
grade, I went out for football. I was the
smallest
kid on the team and very skinny. One day, during practice, the coach
told me to put my head down and hit the other kid as hard as I could
in his waist. So when
the ball was snapped, I ran across the line and hit other kid to
make room for the running back. The other kid, whose name was Jeff,
was knocked to the ground and the
coach
hollered, “That’s
it, you did great. That’s exactly what you were supposed to do.”
But
Jeff, just laid there groaning. He couldn’t get up. His mother
happened to
be at
the practice and helped him up. She took him to the hospital and Jeff
had to have emergency surgery. When I hit him, his appendix ruptured.
I felt awful. He could have died. Back then, I was not religious. I
didn’t visit him in the hospital and didn’t even pray for him. I
no longer liked football and didn’t want to play anymore. And
Jeff
ended
up
a big scar from surgery.
“Brothers
and sisters: Do you not know that you are the temple of God, and that
the Spirit of God dwells in you? If one destroys God’s temple, God
will destroy that person; for the temple of God, which you are, is
holy.”
Have
you ever watched UFC fighting? Years ago, before
I was a priest, I
used to watch it. Both men, have each other’s permission to hit and
kick and even to knock the other
out. But, does that make it right? Did you know when someone is
knocked out, it’s actually
a concussion
that
causes
swelling
of the brain? Broken
teeth, cuts on the face and hands, damage caused to the brain happens
at these fights.
Even if someone
allows another person to hurt
them, for the sake of seeing who is stronger, does that make it
right? It
seems to me, it would be seriously sinful to take pleasure in watching
another person get injured. It is also sinful to allow someone to physically injure us.
We
should treat each
other as a temple of the Holy Spirit. As
Jesus said, “You
shall love your neighbor as yourself.” So,
if you don’t love yourself enough to care for your own body, is
that a good thing? We need to love our self, we need to care for
and
protect our body. We are created in God’s image and likeness. As
human beings
we have dignity and should treat our self and others with dignity.
That dignity comes from God, who dwells in each of us through
baptism.
When
I was pastor in Halstead, I had four altar servers who
were
severely injured in football. A 6th
grade boy got a concussion. One altar server got
a
broken
arm.
A former
altar server played
college football and
shattered
a bone in his leg and tore ligaments. He had to wear a cast for
almost 6 months and then needed physical therapy so he could walk
normally. He
walked with a limp for almost a year.
A
junior in high school got a concussion. The
brain injury cause him to have problems with his mind. His
brain injury was bad, he became paranoid and tried to burn down
is own home.
Often
times, people with concussions are unable to
control their
emotions and have extreme anger outbursts. The doctor told his
parents, if he gets another concussion, it could have
severe
consequences. The boy slowly got better and despite the doctors
recommendation, they let him play again, because they said, “He
likes to play.”
Thanks be to God, he didn’t get another concussion and his paranoia
went away. But,
he was put in a very dangerous situation, that could have affected
him for the rest of his life.
“Brothers
and sisters: Do you not know that you are the temple of God, and that
the Spirit of God dwells in you? If one destroys God’s temple, God
will destroy that person; for the temple of God, which you are, is
holy.”
We
have an obligation to care for our self and our body. To care for our
children, not only physically, but especially
spiritually.
I
believe we need to re-evaluate what is most important in our life.
God must be first. Our children’s religious education must come
before any school activity that prevents our
children from growing in their faith. If we fail to do that, we are
failing to help our children to get to heaven. It’s
great to win a championship, but its infinitely greater to win glory
in heaven. When
it’s all said and done, only faith in Jesus helps us to get to
heaven. Every other worldly pursuit, no matter how good is straw
compared to our eternal life in heaven.
Listen
to the words of St. Paul, “Do
you not know that in a race all the runners compete, but only one
receives the prize? So run so that you may attain it. Every athlete
exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a
perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. Well, I do not run
aimlessly, I do not box as one beating the air; but I pommel my body
and subdue it, lest after preaching to others I myself should be
disqualified.” (1
Corinthians 9:24-27)
St.
Paul pommeled his body by fasting, overcoming temptations, denying
himself and striving for virtue.
Listen
to the words of St. John Chrysostom. He said, “We
bloodied no weapons, nor stood on the battle line, nor bore any
wounds, nor saw any fighting, and yet we won the victory. All this
was the glorious result of the Cross….The
cross is our trophy raised against the demons, our sword against sin,
and the sword Christ used to pierce the serpent. The cross is the
Father’s will, the glory of the only-begotten, the joy of the
spirit, the pride of angels, the guarantee of the Church, Paul’s
boast, the bulwark of the saints, the light to the entire world.”
My
friends, let us look to receive the crown of glory that never fades,
by practicing
our faith, learning our faith, making
sure our children have the opportunity to learn their faith, and
by
sharing
our faith with others. May,
the Virgin Mary, whose body was a temple, when She carried Her unborn
Infant Son, who is God, in Her womb, help us to love and care for our
own temples and the temples of each other, with love.