Ash Wednesday - Deny Pleasures, Self-love

 

Are we living for eternity or living for the world? Are we detached from the things of the world, rather than to attached to God alone. One of the most common temptations we have is the temptation for self-love, by satisfying our own personal desires because we love our self, more than we love God and neighbor.

That is why Ash Wednesday and Good Friday are obligatory days of fasting and abstinence for Catholics. In addition, Fridays during Lent are obligatory days of abstinence. For members of the Latin Catholic Church, the norms on fasting are obligatory from age 18 until age 59. The minimum, when fasting, a person is permitted to eat one full meal, as well as two smaller meals that together are not equal to a full meal. The norms concerning abstinence from meat are binding upon members of the Latin Catholic Church from age 14 onwards. All Fridays of Lent are days of Penance and Sacrifice.

During Lent and especially on Fridays of Lent, we are to deny our self-non-sinful pleasures of the body: food, drink, temperature control, delicious meals, favorite foods, comfort, taste, meat, etc... And pleasures of the eye: TV, Internet, Social Media. And especially deny our self-sinful pleasures: Lying, Laziness, Envy, Gossiping, Excessive Food or Drink, Lust, Anger, pornography, impurity, cussing, etc...

By dying to our self and our pleasures, we live for God and live for heaven and don't allow worldly things to control us. Rather we control them and master them, so as to practice virtue. We need to be detached from the things of the world, so we can be attached to God alone.

The following items are considered non-necessary or even luxury items, especially in poor countries: Candy, dessert, pop, alcohol, cigarettes, power drinks, meat, chewing tobacco, etc...

Alcohol is viewed by most in four ways: as a social drink or partying drink or luxury drink, or for celebrations.

It also lends to immoderate drinking and drunkenness and is an occasion of sin for some who may have it as an addiction.

This is why during Lent; we deny our self-non-sinful pleasures and sinful pleasures. We make these sacrifices, so that we can detached from the things of the world and be attached to God alone, because in the end, if we give up all our worldly and sinful pleasures, we will look forward to heaven as our goal, we all our pleasures will be satisfied in God alone.

Rather than living for our self, and our pleasures, let's live for God & neighbor. May the Virgin Mary, help us to enter into Lent with a spirit of penance and sacrifice, as we look forward to celebrating the Resurrection of Jesus on Easter.

As Aristotle said, "I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is the victory over self."