Lord I wanted to hold my little one on my lap, and tell them about you. But since I never had the chance, will you please hold them on your lap and tell them about me?
In
the first reading, the
prophet Jeremiah said,
“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you. Before
you were born I dedicated you, a prophet to the nations I appointed
you.” Before
Jeremiah was
born, he was dedicated to God and someday as
a prophet, would
speak on behalf of God. King
Zedekiah didn’t
want to hear what Jeremiah said and threw him into a well and
eventually killed him.
This reading also prefigures
Jesus. Before He was
conceived in the womb of Mary, He was dedicated as the future Messiah
who would come to save us from our sins and would be THE
prophet
sent to the nations, so all
may have the opportunity for salvation. Like Jeremiah He was arrested
and put into a dungeon and then was
killed.
Later in Our Lord’s life, He would describe how the Jewish
people treated prophets. He
said, "Jerusalem, Jerusalem! You kill the prophets and
stone the messengers God has sent you!” (Matt.
23:37) And in today’s
Gospel, its clearly seen how they wanted to kill Jesus because He
acted
as a prophet speaking
on behalf of God, because
He is God.
He
spoke as a prophet when He said, “Today this scripture
passage is fulfilled in your hearing”.
The Jews
knew the scripture Our Lord had just read referred to the Messiah and
that’s why they couldn’t believe He was
claiming to be the Messiah.
They knew Him
as
a boy
and saw Him grow
into a man. That’s
why they said, “Isn’t
this the son of Joseph?”. They
also knew
the Messiah would come
from Bethlehem, but they didn’t know He
was born there. Jesus explains “a prophet is not accepted
in His own native place” and
then He said
something which infuriated them. He explained
how God
treated non-Jews
such as Naaman the Syrian, by
healing
his
leprosy and the widow, who God miraculously
fed
during a famine. And yet they
treat Jesus, a Jew, with
contempt and try to throw Him off the cliff to kill Him. They
treated Jesus, the prophet of prophets, much worse than Jeremiah and
the other prophets. Followers
of Jesus, who speak the truth will
also
be treated similarly. Anyone
who speaks
the truth, is
speaking
on behalf of God and just like Jeremiah and Jesus, others
will want
to do destroy them.
Last
week was the anniversary of Roe vs Wade and
I spoke on behalf of God about respecting life and explained a person
is a person no matter how small.
Today’s
readings also speak about the
unborn child. The prophet
Jeremiah said, “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew
you.” and the
psalm said, “On
you I depend from birth; from my mother’s womb you are my
strength.” It
is certainly true
all unborn children depend upon God, who is their strength.
A
number of years ago, my sister had an ectopic pregnancy. The child
should have passed through her Fallopian tube and then attached to
her womb, but attached to the tube and started growing in the wrong
place. My sister needed emergency surgery, otherwise, the growing
child would cause the tube to burst and both would die. My sister had
surgery to save her life, but removing the tube ended the life of the
baby. It was a sad event for her, her husband and the whole family.
There was nothing that could have been done, no matter what would
have happened, the baby could never have lived. Yet, because the
child has an immortal soul, even after death, will live forever.
It
is a scientific fact, a new person is created at the moment of
conception, because the child has its own DNA. As Catholics we
believe God infuses an immortal soul into a child at the moment of
conception. So today, my
sister’s child is with God.
About
a year ago, my niece became pregnant, but within a month, she had a
miscarriage. She was heartbroken, as it was her first child. While I
can never know the pain of a mother and father who lost a child
through miscarriage, in my own heart, I grieved with them.
In
December, at Holy Trinity we
had a Mass for those who have lost a child through miscarriage or
stillbirth or abortion. Couples lit a candle and wrote the names of
the children in a book. They received a rose for each child.
A
few years ago, I
prepared Carla and Steve for
marriage. A
year after their wedding, she
became pregnant. They were so excited. The doctor gave them a due
date and it just so happened
the day the child was to be born, their baby died before
she went into labor. There
was nothing I could do to console the parents, for only Jesus could
do that. A year later, Carla
called and said, she was pregnant and asked for
prayer. She was afraid she
would have another miscarriage, especially since she was pregnant
with twins. The children were born early, but they were fine and a
few weeks later I baptized them.
Then
two years later, Carla
called again and said, “Father, pray for me, I’m
pregnant. This time I have triplets!”
She was not taking fertility
pills. We prayed much and
when it came time to deliver, two of them needed to stay in the
hospital for several weeks, but all were fine. About
a month later, I baptized them.
I told her, “Carla, you and Steve need to
use Natural Family Planning, you have 5 children under the age of 3”
and she said, “Yes, father, that’s our plan.”
There
are times when couples need to space their children for serious
reasons, such as a serious financial difficulties, or the health of a
parent or a child. Or a couple with 5 children under the age of 3
years old making it very difficult to manage them.
Years
ago, there was only the
calendar method to
space children, but
it was not very accurate with
regard to cycles. However, over time some
accurate methods were
developed. And today these methods reveal God’s
plan for marriage by using
Natural Family Planning. NFP
is 99%
effective--
much more effective than birth control and
there are no risks
to the mother such as
cancer and no serious
risks to an unborn child.
NFP
is so effective it shouldn’t
be used to space children except for
serious reasons. NFP is open
to life and there are no obstacles to a
total self gift to each other. There
are specially trained doctors in Wichita, who can help prevent
miscarriages and help couples to conceive.
You
would certainly agree
it should be against the law
to kill a baby after birth. Wouldn’t
you agree it should be
against the law to abort
a baby just before birth? Or
if a baby is viable baby
after
24
weeks. Or against the law to
abort
a 15 week baby?
What about a baby, who feels pain? Or
has a beating
heart? Would you agree
it be against the law to abort a baby just
after conception?
If you agree with all of
these, you would agree some contraceptives should be against the law.
Let me explain.
What
I am going to say, is not
easy to say, nor is it easy for you to hear. But it needs to be
said. The truth needs to be told.
Did you know birth control pills, the patch and the IUD can
cause the death of newly
conceived babies?
Most
of the time chemical birth
control and also IUDs prevent
conception. However, at
times,
a child will
be conceived. It takes about
5 days for a
newly conceived baby to pass
through the Fallopian
tube and then the child will
attach to the womb. However,
IUDs
and chemicals used for birth control irritate the
lining of the womb and the
child is unable to attach and so dies and the mother did
not know she was pregnant. This
is why some forms of birth control should be against the law because
they can cause the death of an unborn baby.
Some
of you may think, why was I never told this before? How come the
doctor never told me, nor the
priest, nor my parents. It
is quite possible, a woman using birth control such as the IUD, the
patch or the pill, has lost a child or multiple children and never
knew it. But someday, she
when she passes into eternity, she will meet the child or children
because she is their mother. How
deeply heart wrenching it
must be for women
to hear about the dangers of
contraceptives. But
God is infinitely merciful. God
knows you did not know about this when you were using contraceptives.
Jesus wants
us to give Him our sins, and
wash them away forever and
give us peace.
Did
you know in
the United States contraceptives
were
against the law from 1873 to
1965
until
a
Planned Parenthood director sued
the state of Connecticut causing the Supreme
Court to
permit the use of contraceptives. The
Griswold
vs. Connecticut ruling
became
the
foundation for
Roe
vs Wade. Now
when Roe vs Wade is overturned, the Griswold vs Connecticut ruling
will need to be overturned or
amended to
protect life from the moment of conception.
There
are three reasons why contraceptives are seriously sinful. First, as
I mentioned some contraceptives can kill unborn children
just after conception. Second, it says no to God, by not being open
to bringing a child into the world, if God would desire it. Third, it
prevents the total gift of self to the spouse by using an obstacle.
Jesus loves you and
wants you to come to Him in
confession and to confess the sin of using birth control, to confess
not following the Church’s
teachings. To confess the possibility of losing children by birth
control. To confess receiving Holy Communion sacrilegiously every
time you received Communion while you
used
birth control. If
you have never confessed
these sins and they
remain on your soul
bring them to Jesus in confession,
and He will wash them away.
When having un-confessed
mortal sins on our soul, we don’t receive any graces whatsoever
from Holy Communion, but rather deeply offend the Lord through
sacrilegious communions.
For
a good confession, we need to be sorry for our sins, desire to avoid
the sin in the future (to be willing to take steps to look into ways
to discontinue the sinful behavior) and to make amends for the sins
by doing penance.
It
takes trust to use natural
family planning. It
takes trust to confess our sins. We
trust God will take care of us, and
He will give us the graces we
need to live out our vocation of marriage. If
we take steps, Jesus will
help us and guide us.
He calms the
frightened lambs as we
snuggle
near His Sacred Heart knowing
He loves us.
My
friends, we are all human, we all make mistakes, and at times we make
seriously wrong
decisions and may not even
know how serious they are until later.
But we must trust in God’s mercy. Come to confession and get rid of
these sins on your soul, and if you do, when you go to your judgment,
you will be filled with joy because Jesus will
not remember them after you confessed them.
Jesus
wants to help families in their sorrows, give consolation and healing
by His love and
help couples to have peace with the sacred act
of
giving oneself to each other in love. In
the bulletin specially
trained doctors
are listed who use NAPRO (Natural
Procreative Technology)
to prevent miscarriages, to help couples conceive and can help with
NFP methods. Just
as Jeremiah and the prophets of the Old Testament and especially
Jesus the prophet of prophets were called to bare witness to the
truth so are we. Jesus is counting on you to tell others the truth
that contraception is wrong because it tells God no to the
possibility of bringing a new person into the world, because it
prevents to the total gift of self and because it can cause the death
of child just after conception. Will you stand up to defend babies
and help young couples to follow God’s plan for marriage and future
of hope?
Jesus
walks with us in our life. Is
always at our side. He is part of everything we do. He supports us
when we grieve, carries us when we feel like we can’t endure a
situation, and He gives us hope and peace in the midst of our sorrows
and our joys. He
gives us strength to bare witness to the truth. As
the prophet Jeremiah said,
“For
I know well the plans I have in mind for you—plans for your welfare
and not for woe, so as to give you a future of hope.”
Today,
may we ask the Virgin Mary to pray for parents who have lost a child
may She comfort them and help them to have peace, She who lost Her
child at the foot of the Cross knows your heartache. And pray for
couples to discover God’s plan for marriage so they will have help
the need when spacing children, and for those who mistakenly used
birth control, may they trust in God’s mercy and through confession
have peace in their hearts. I would like to close with a poem from a
parent who lost a child by miscarriage.
Daddy,
please don’t look so sad,
Mommy, please don’t cry.
I am
in the arms of Jesus
and He sings me lullabies.
Please
do not try to question God,
don’t think He is unkind.
Don’t
think He sent me to you and that
He changed His mind.
You
see, I am special
and I’m needed up above.
I’m the
special child you gave Him,
the product of your love.
I’ll
always be there with you.
So watch the sky at night.
Find
the brightest star that`s gleaming.
That`s my halo’s brilliant
light.
So
Daddy please don’t look so sad.
Mommy, please don’t cry.
I
am in the arms of Jesus.
And He sings me lullabies.
For
I came from the womb of Mommy and went to God, who before I was
formed-- knew me.