Printable Version: Illumination of Conscience - Deep Examination of Conscience
Sins commonly committed but
rarely confessed. A Deep Examination of Conscience.
I
am the Lord Your God, you shall not have strange gods before me.
Superstitious is lack of
trust in God’s providence. Even
though you say you don’t believe in horoscope
or astrology or fortune cookies,
if you read them, you are still giving them credence. If you don’t
believe them, why read them?
Not
Protecting Your Children from movies, videos, games, books:
from violence,
murder, drugs, sexual activity
Wicca
or White Magic or Movies with occult characters, Pokémon, or
Baughman or children’s games with casting spells
Ougi
board- is a channel for and opens the player up to demonic activity.
Kids can
now do
ougi board on their i-phones. Games like Charlie Charlie are
dangerous
Cardinal
Ratzinger on Harry Potter Books- Kuby
wrote a letter to Cardinal Ratzinger the head of the CDF, “the
books corrupt the hearts of the young, preventing them from
developing a properly ordered sense of good and evil, thus harming
their relationship with God while that relationship is still in its
infancy.” The
cardinal, future Pope Benedict responded saying, “it
is good that you enlighten people about Harry Potter, because those
are subtle seductions which act unnoticed and by this deeply distort
Christianity in the soul, before it can grow properly.”
YOGA-
Pope Benedict, Pope Francis, Fr. Mitch Pacwa, Johnette Bankevich
condemn yoga– Bishop
Carerra, the archbishop of Mexico city in a pastoral letter said,
“However much
proponents insist that these techniques are valuable as methods, and
imply no teaching contrary to Christianity, the techniques in
themselves . . . in their own context, the postures and exercises,
are designed for their specific religious purpose. Even when they are
carried out within a Christian atmosphere, the intrinsic meaning of
these gestures remains intact.” So
even if you think you’re stretching your back, if you’re using
the Sun Stretch to do so, whether you intend to or not, you’re
still posing in a position of worship to the Sun god because that’s
what this pose was designed to do. It was never designed as a back
stretch.
Genuflecting
out of habit without thinking why we are doing so.
We should intentionally look at the tabernacle and with love and
respect to Jesus in the Eucharist say a prayer as we genuflect.
Receiving
Holy Communion carelessly by
allowing particles of the Sacred Host to fall to the ground when
receiving on the hand. The normal way the Church desires everyone to
receive Communion is on the tongue. It’s a permission to receive on
the hand. It’s an indult. After receiving Communion on the hand we
are to pick up the tiny particles on the hand and consume them. Every
particle, no matter how small is the whole and entire person of Jesus
Christ. And to purposely allow them to fall to the ground is sinful.
Due to the pandemic bishops are recommending people receive in the
hand. Church law is Communion on the tongue. Therefore
we have a right to receive
on the tongue.
Parents
not helping your children to respect the Sacred Host when they
receive Holy Communion. Parents are responsible for particles of the
Host that fall to the ground when their child receives on the hand.
Not
praying to Jesus or thanking Him after receiving Him in Holy
Communion. Did
you know according to Canon Law it’s a mortal sin for a priest to
not make a thanksgiving after receiving Holy Communion? So
what about lay people? What is your obligation? According to saints
union with Jesus in Communion lasts 10 to 30 minutes. Leaving
Mass early after
receiving Jesus in Holy Communion is at least a venial sin. When you
return to your pew --are praying to Jesus who just came inside
your soul or are you texting
someone or looking around in the church?
It
is seriously sinful to not fast one hour before receiving Holy
Communion such as such as drinking coffee or eating candy or chewing
gum (diabetics serious reason can use food or juice to raise blood
sugar and so food becomes medicine and so not sinful)
Spiritual
Reading and Learning About the Faith.
Not
reading the Bible or the Catechism or Spiritual reading. Not
encouraging your children to read the bible or help them to know the
faith. Not talking to your children about the faith.
Not
giving God credit for all the good He does through us.
We
are to use the talents and gifts He has given us and not using them
wisely for His glory or to help others can be selfish.
Failing
to daily
pray to God.
Adore, Confess, Thanks, Praying for your needs and the needs of
others, praying with the heart, asking God for advice
Thou
Shall Not Take God’s Name in Vain. Saying
“Oh my God” is taking
God’s name in vain and
disrespectful to God. We can say “Oh God, I love you” out of
devotion, but we
should not say “O
God” in vain manner offends God. Or saying the name of Jesus out
of shock or as an expression rather than out of love is sinful. Any
sort of cussing using foul language or saying dirty jokes. If we
watch a movie or video or listen to the radio taking God’s name in
vain, we share in its sinfulness.
Remember
to Keep the Sabbath Holy. Missing Mass on Sundays and Holy Days of
Obligation. Why is
about only 1/3 of Catholics or less come to Mass on Holy Days of
obligation? And if that’s the case, why is it
that only a handful
come to confession before receiving Holy Communion? To purposely
miss Mass without a serious reason on a Sunday or Holy day is
mortally sinful (except during the pandemic)
If
we fail to go to Mass, we fail to bring our children to Mass,
preventing them from receiving Jesus in Holy Communion and being
present at the Holy Sacrifice and hearing the Word of God. So if we
miss Sunday Mass 5 times in a year, that’s 5 times we failed to
allow our children to be present at the Holy Sacrifice, to the hear
the Word of God and to receive Holy Communion.
Working
on Sunday un-necessarily
such as painting
the house, mowing the yard, doing laundry or shopping. Going to youth
sporting events instead of attending Mass.
Honor
Your Father and Mother. Dishonor our parents by
speaking negatively about them, by revealing their faults or sins to
others. By not visiting them or calling them. Not taking care of
them when they are no longer able to care for themselves.
Failing
to teach children to pray or teach them about God or to live a moral
life.
Men
failing to be the spiritual head of the family and failing to lead
the family in prayer. They
are to protect the
children from
pornography, bad movies and videos, bad friendships, failing to be
involved in the lives of our children. Fathers help their daughters
to wear modest clothing and teach their sons to respect women.
Divorced
fathers can fail to communicate with or spend time with their
children.
Workaholics
who spend
unnecessary time working when they could be at home.
Failing
to discipline children and
let them do what they want can cause them to have behavior problems
and not learn self-discipline.
Thou
shall not Kill.
Abortion.
While in seminary Bernard
Nathanson, an abortionist, came to the seminary to give a talk. He
admitted to killing over 60,000 babies and God forgave all his sins
and the punishment due to his sins when he was baptized in into the
Catholic faith. If God can forgive an abortionist who killed
thousands of unborn children, He can forgive a young unwed mother who
was confused and pushed into it by her boyfriend or parents and was
told a lie, that it was just a blog of tissue, when in fact it was a
baby. But God is infinitely merciful. He will forgive. After
Confession, we can still feel guilty, which is called false guilt
because confession washes away the sin and the guilt. The
organization Project Rachel can help heal the after effects of
abortion.
Voting
for a pro-abortion candidate,
while the candidate
is pro-life is a
serious sin, requiring confession before receiving Holy Communion.
Failing to pray for
an end to abortion and
failing to help end
abortion is sinful.
Husbands
and wives who argue and fight --scandalize
their children by
fighting in their presence. Slamming doors, throwing things.
Verbally
Abusive. Employers
can be verbally abusive to employees or spouses to each other or to
their children. Putting each other down, calling each other names.
Losing
one’s temper, physically hitting a child or a spouse is
seriously sinful. Spanking may not sinful, when it’s done without
anger and if the child was warned in advance and if would not cause
bruising.
It’s
good to confess impatience,
but be specific as to what you mean. Are
you impatient by
thoughts only or by
being impatient with
your words and so snap or yell at others (which
should also be confessed).
Parents
who scream at their children, rather
than using self-control and discipline.
Lack
of Thanksgiving- Not being grateful, complaining- negative attitude.
Gluttony-
over eating food to gain so much weight to the point of causing
serious health problems such as diabetes or high blood pressure is
sinful. Eating foods that are not good for one’s health can
be sinful.
Smoking,-
harms your lungs
and high risk of getting cancer.
Getting
drunk or drinking in excess or driving while intoxicated.
Taking
marijuana and drugs
causes one to lose the ability
to reason properly, which is sinful.
Driving
Excessive Speeds in your vehicle places your life and others at risk.
Road Rage.
To
be selfish in conversation – Not
Listening to other person speaking and talking excessively about
yourself.
Vanity-
Spending hours putting on makeup, doing fingernails, working one
one’s hair. Excessive
concern for one’s appearance. There
was a hospital staff member who was hospitalized. When
I entered her room, I didn’t recognize her because she had no
makeup on. She honestly looked better without makeup.
It’s
sinful to not accept
our personal appearance.
Some want to be taller, others shorter, others skinnier, others
physically bigger. Some wish they had a different color of hair, or
some don’t want to lose their hair etc… wearing toupees or wigs.
Did
you know some cosmetics
in European countries are made
from aborted fetuses? As far as to whether or not these are sold in
the USA, I don’t know. Wasting money on expensive hair
styles, face
lifts and cosmetic
surgeries or
implants is
not God’s will and the money could be used to help those who have
no food and the poor.
For
men and women they can view physical appearance as an excessive
desire to have attention, to feel loved and
use their appearance to get attention. To gloat in the mirror or to
be envious of the appearance of others is sinful. Wasting money on
excessive clothes or taking protein supplements, for what purpose?
Not
exercising or doing excessive exorcise. Our
body is a temple of the Holy Spirit and as St. Paul says does not
belong to us, but to God. We are stewards of our body and our health.
Some men and boys go to the gym to build muscles (rather
than for exercise) for
the sake of girls looking at them is vanity.
Un-forgiveness.
Failing to forgive.
Resentfulness.
Wishing
bad things will happen to others.
Trying
to control others, willfulness.
Perfectionism.
Some people think everything
must done in a perfect way,
which is prideful.
Pride
manifests itself in so many
ways, such as arrogance, self-righteousness, thinking oneself is
better than others. Failing to forgive the bad behavior of others can
be the result of pride too.
Self-hate.
Putting oneself
down.
Self-mutilation
by excessive piercings or
piercings of tongue and nose. Tattoos,
(injecting ink into skin).
Self-pity,
no one loves me, no one calls
me, no pays attention to me
Thou
Shall Not Commit Adultery,
being unfaithful to spouse by texting or calling another person
secretly, or being unfaithful to your marital vow by viewing
pornography or looking with lust at anyone including your spouse.
Unhealthy emotional
attachment to another person, whom one is not married.
Cohabitation
and sex before marriage is
seriously sinful and also
scandalous behavior because
it can give young people the idea its okay.
Homosexual
fantasies is sinful
when one willfully embraces them. Homosexual
actions or having a
homosexual partner.
Selfishly
using your spouse for your own sexual pleasure,
rather than giving yourself to your spouse with the marital embrace
so the experience is most pleasing to them. Birth Control causes men
to use women for their own pleasure.
Watching
movies with sexual activity.
Women
who wear immodest
clothing revealing
cleavage, or tight clothing or short dresses or skirts and it is even
more sinful to do so while at Church because the church is the house
of God and because it can distract others from worshiping God and
cause them to sin in their mind.
Men
can wear inappropriate
clothing -Tight
shirts so ladies can see their muscles.
Men
and Women Wearing shorts to
Mass or Eucharistic adoration is
inappropriate because it shows a lack respect and reverence towards
Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament and can distract others.
Watching
soap operas and reading romance novels, can
lead to lustful thoughts and fantasies.
Vasectomy
or a tubal ligation. Tells
no to God if He wants to bring a child into the world. It seriously
harms healthy organs. The use of birth control and sterilization is a
lack of trust in God and His plan for marriage.
Birth
Control-- 98% of
all Catholic women have used contraception sometime in their life.
CDC says 65% of all women 15 to 49 currently use birth control. So if
that’s the case, how is it nearly every woman from age 15 to 49,
who attends Mass receives Holy Communion? Does that mean all women
who use birth control do not attend Mass? Or does it mean all those
who are using contraception are also receiving Communion. These are
two grievous sins rarely confessed. If
one is using Birth
Control and fails to
confess it in confession,
then one is
receiving Holy Communion sacrilegiously. If a woman is using
contraception and attending Mass she should not receive Holy
Communion until she discontinues using it.
Did
you know the IUD, the patch and the pill can all cause the death of a
baby? It takes
about 5 days for a newly conceived child to move down the fallopian
tube and into the womb. While using these forms of birth control, the
tiny child will die because it is unable to attach to the womb due to
irritation from the device or the chemical. So the mother conceives a
child without even knowing it and has caused them to die by using
birth control. If you have used birth control, you most likely
unknowingly caused the death of some of your children. Even
though we may not have known this was the case, we consented to all
the effects of taking birth control when we began to use it. And we
were knowingly doing something we know was against Church teaching.
However, God is infinitely
merciful and does not want to condemn us, rather He wants us to come
to Him in confession and get that sin off our soul and give us peace.
He desires we follow
His plan of marriage for us by spacing children using Natural Family
Planning, which is 99% effective and so more effective than birth
control.
If
you committed a mortal sin such as using birth control or missing
Mass on Sunday or Holy days (outside of the pandemic), willfully
watching pornography or masturbating or committing adultery or having
sex before marriage, etc.. and did not confess the serious sin before
you received Holy Communion, you committed a sacrilegious communion
and did not receive any grace whatsoever from Communion. But rather
deeply offend and hurt Jesus in the Eucharist.
Purposely
withholding a serious sin in confession,
none of your sins are forgiven and all confessions after that until
that one sin is finally confessed and then one should confess all
serious sins since that first invalid confession.
Thou
shall not steal. Gambling in
itself is not sinful, but when one wastes money that could be used
for a better purpose such as helping the poor, it can become sinful.
Stealing
objects of inheritance,
money, furniture etc..
Cheating
on taxes.
Laziness--
wasting time watching TV or
the internet and phone when we could be spending more time in prayer
or with others.
Failing
to Help the Poor- especially
own family and community
Thou
shall not bare false witness. When
we commit a white
lie, we can do it
because we don’t want to hurt another’s
feelings, or the truth may make us look bad. But
we forget, when we lie, we hurt the feelings of Jesus, and deny Him,
who is the Truth.
Giving
the silent treatment to spouse or relative can be grievous. Refusing
to talk to someone for years.
Covet
your neighbor’s wife. Wishing you were married to someone who is
married already.
Covet
your neighbors’ goods. Envying
others rather than being grateful for their gifts or being jealous
of others to their detriment.
Materialism.
Wasting money on unnecessary items. Not helping the poor. Not
donating to the Church and charitable organizations. Not using one’s
time, talent and treasure for the glory and honor of God and for love
of our neighbor.
God
is infinitely merciful. The ordinary way God want us to forgive us--
is through the sacrament of Confession. We
are required to confess all mortal sins at least once a year.
Some
priests tell people they only need to confess mortal sins
and this can cause some to
think they don’t need to ever confess venial sins. But, the
Catechism #1458 states, “Without
being strictly necessary, confession of everyday faults (venial sins)
is nevertheless strongly
recommended by
the Church. Indeed
the regular confession of our venial sins will
help form our
conscience, fight against evil tendencies, let ourselves be healed by
Christ and progress in the life of the Spirit. By receiving more
frequently through this sacrament the gift of the Father's mercy, we
are spurred to be merciful as He is merciful:”
To
commit a mortal sin, three things must be present.
It must be grave matter, we know its grave matter and we must give
full consent. So if one
of the three is lacking, then we don’t commit a mortal sin.
But we still commit a venial sin.
Every
sin hurts God, hurts our neighbor (the mystical body of Christ) and
our own soul. We
must see sin in light of our relationship with Jesus.
When we sin, we hurt
Jesus and so we should never willfully commit any sin, because we
love Jesus and don’t want to hurt our relationship with Him. But if
we do sin, we immediately tell Jesus we are sorry and will do better
because we love Him.
God’s
Mercy
“The
greater the sinner, the greater one has right to God’s mercy”
is what Jesus told St.
Faustina. Jesus wants us to have confidence in His Mercy. We are to
trust Him and pray for mercy for our self and the whole world. Once
we confessed our sins, we should not
repeat them again in
confession because by doing so is a lack of trust in God’s mercy.
Divine
Mercy Sunday
We
can be confident, that if we make a good confession during Lent and
receive Holy Communion, while in the state of grace on the Sunday
after Easter (Divine Mercy Sunday), not only will God forgive all our
sins, but the punishment due to all our sins. This past year, most
could not receive Holy Communion on Divine Mercy Sunday.
We
can also receive a plenary
indulgence anytime
during the year. But
to gain a plenary
indulgence, we must be
detached from all sin, must go to confession and receive Holy
Communion while in the state of grace and also perform a deed (as
approved by the Church),
such as making the Stations of the Cross, or praying the Rosary
before Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament or
praying the Rosary as a group.
Regular
Monthly Confession- God
is infinitely merciful and wants to forgive our sins. We should go to
confession at least monthly and if we commit
a mortal sin to go to confession right away.
By delaying confession after committing a serious sin, are we truly
sorry we seriously offended Jesus?
Finally,
I would like to
encourage you to get “Fire
Insurance” by wearing the Scapular. Because
Our Lady promised, those who wear the scapular will not suffer
eternal fire.
We must also live a faithful Christian life of chastity, and daily
pray the Rosary and be enrolled in the scapular. Our Lady promises
those who die wearing the scapular the first Saturday after they die,
will go to heaven.
And
if we are dying or might die due to a serious illness or serious
surgery, we should ask for the Apostolic
Pardon which is
part of anointing of the sick. It too washes away all punishment due
to sin.
Daily
Examine of Conscience
Daily
examine your conscience, perhaps at the end of the day and then make
an Act of Contrition.
A
good way to prepare for confession is ask the Holy
Spirit to enlighten you of
our sins.
Regularly
meditate on the Passion of Jesus, which
will help you to be truly sorry for your sins and you will begin to
understand how your sins hurt Jesus.
And
if any time you realize you have sinned, tell Jesus right away, you
are sorry, and this
well help you to grow in your love and personal relationship with
Him.
May
we entrust our self, our temptations, the source of our sins and all
our future confessions to the Immaculate Heart of Mary, because
Simeon prophesied to Mary at the Presentation of Jesus in the Temple,
“a sword will
pierce your own soul—so that the secret thoughts of many, will be
laid bare.” And
She will prepare us for our confessions and especially for the moment
of our judgment when all will be revealed in the light of truth. She
can and also will prepare us for an “Illumination of Conscience”
if that would occur in our life.