“For
we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each
may receive recompense, according to what he did in the body, whether
good or evil.”
Every
person God creates has a mission. Jeremiah states, “For I know
the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper
you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
(Jeremiah 29:11) God’s plan for each person is to help bring about
His kingdom on earth, as it is in heaven, which is what we pray in
the Lord’s prayer.
To
most, it seems as though our role in God’s plan is small. But,
Jesus uses the example of a “mustard seed, one of the smallest
of all seeds, to show that the seed actually produces the largest of
plants, and puts forth branches, so that the birds of the sky can
dwell in its shade”.
We
go about our ordinary daily life. We get up, take the kids to school
and activities. We go to work. We keep our home clean and in order.
On Sunday, we go to church. This can seem monotonous day in and day
out. But, we don’t realize how important, these things are. It’s
important to raise children to become adults. We teach them to write,
manners, morals, to love others and to forgive. We help them to pray
and do their best at sports or academics. We build up God’s kingdom
by raising our children to be virtuous and bring about God’s
kingdom by their lives.
For
those who are retired, you build up God’s kingdom by being faithful
to your ordinary daily duties, through your prayers, your time in
Adoration, your example and advice you give due your wisdom from age.
The
work we do on the farm benefits others. There is a billboard that
states, “One Kansas farmer can feed 155 people, plus
you.” Feeding livestock, plowing the field and farm work
accomplishes more than what we expect.
God’s kingdom grows by the good we do for others, especially for
those in our own family and community.
Jesus
said we will be judged on works of mercy. “When I was hungry,
you gave me food, when I was thirsty, you gave me drink. When ill,
you visited me…” There are also spiritual works of mercy:
instructing the ignorant, forgiving offenses, counseling, the
doubtful, praying for the living and the dead etc.. We
use our body in
our own home to do good and
bring about God’s kingdom.
“For
we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each
may receive recompense, according to what he did in the body, whether
good or evil.”
I
will now go over bad things we do in our body, that can hinder
building up of God’s kingdom.
St.
Paul helps us to understand our body, he said, “Do you not know
that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom
you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at
a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.” If we fail to
treat our body with respect, we fail to honor God in our body.
There
can be serious consequences to not respecting our body. For example,
tattoos. Did you know the book of Leviticus specifically forbids
tattoos. Ink, is a foreign substance injected into the body. A new
study indicates tattoos cause a greater chance of developing
lymphatic cancer.
Being
overweight can cause diabetes. Under eating, called anorexia,
deprives the body of food it needs.
Getting
drunk can destroy the liver and cause improper reasoning and we can
make bad choices. Drunks can become vicious, belligerent, abusive,
and fail to take care of others and themselves. To purposefully get
drunk is seriously sinful.
Smoking
cigarettes harms lungs. My uncle, who was 48, my brother-in-law, who
was 57, and my father, who was 72, all died from lung cancer, most
likely due to smoking. Marijuana causes the inability to reason
properly. In every state, one can be arrested driving while high. To
smoke marijuana can be seriously sinful.
Fr.
Carlo Martins, an exorcist said, “Yoga, should not be practiced.
Because by definition, the bodily positions of yoga are an act of
worship of Hindu gods. Yoga is a practice to channel the energy of
the Kundalini spirit. If you want to do stretches, do stretches, that
have nothing to do with yoga or it’s postures.” He
also said, “Inanimate objects like crystals don’t give
energy. It’s a superstition.” It
offends God.
Today,
young people can misuse
smart phones to do things
contrary to the Christian faith, such as the Ouija board, or games
with characters
who do curses
or magic. Children
need to know all magic is evil. There is no such thing as good magic,
because all magic is superstitious.
It’s
wrong to use our body for superstitious purposes. These
kind
of games become channels evil spirits can enter the home and cause
problems in the family.
We
also can’t
use our body or the bodies of others for sinful purposes either, such
as premarital relations, impure actions, or viewing pornography. All
are serious sins.
Phones,
i-pads, computers are portals
to view
bodies of others as objects of pleasure. Pornography is rampant. In
a 2016, study, The
Porn Phenomenon: The Impact of Pornography in the Digital Age.
It
states
88% of teens (youth 13-17) have a phone and 82% of teens sleep with
their phones in their bedroom.
The
average age a child
first sees pornography is 11.
By the age of 14,
94%
of children have seen pornography. About 70%
of men and 20%
of women view pornography at least once a week, and almost 90%
percent of men view pornography once a month. Your
children’s friends
may show them pornography on their friend’s phone. We
need to teach
them how to respond- by
saying no and tell you it
happened.
Through
texting, predator adults,
pretend to be youth.
Chat rooms are dangerous.
They can
text a child and ask the
child to send inappropriate
photos of themselves and then
the predator threaten the child to show the image to others unless he
does what is asked. This is
one way
child trafficking begins. The use
of “spoof”
(false
numbers)
makes
it difficult, for police
to track them.
If
children aren’t
protected,
viewing porn can become an addiction they can
carry
into adulthood.
80%
of
children say their parents never
discussed pornography with them. Bishop Kemme
said, “When
parents and guardians haven’t created an environment where it’s
safe and welcome to talk about uncomfortable topics, children will
often hide these experiences out of shame and embarrassment.”
My
dear parents: As
a suggestion, when you first
discover
your child viewed pornography, don’t punish them, because you
failed
to discuss
it with them. First,
sit-down with your kids and talk about pornography. Don’t accuse
them or interrogate them, no. Remember, it seeks them out, and it
seeks them out through devices that you probably gave them. Sit down,
talk, and look for a path forward. Second,
give rules. No cell phones, no computers ever in their bedrooms.
Always in public view. Third.
Make a specific time every night cell phones are
given
to parents. Fourth.
Install
parental controls on your children’s devices such as limiting
screen time, block inappropriate websites, and
use
websites such as www.covenanteyes.com.
Fifth,
require specific spaces without tech devices, such
as when eating
together, or at Mass, phones can’t
be used after
10pm etc…
Sixth,
Don’t
give children
unfettered
access
to a smartphone, tablet, or computer.
With
regard to women, their
body is
sacred and
should be veiled.
The
body of a woman is beautiful. As the psalm states, “How
lovely is your dwelling place, Lord God almighty.”
Immodesty
can cause men to lust. Both
women and men can sin this way. Men for not keeping custody of his
eyes and women for tempting men.
Another
thing to consider is when we see people with their
hair dyed
green, purple, red, or if their lips,
are
pierced,
don’t
judge them. We should open our heart to try to understand, that there
is a reason why they don’t love themselves. But this type of
behavior is harmful to how one self views their body.
Tops
showing
cleavage, tight clothing, shorts, or
skirts
above the knee are all inappropriate especially
at
Mass or Eucharistic adoration or when
just
walking
into church. Why? Because in the Tabernacle
is Jesus Christ, the King of heaven and earth. This is God’s house.
The
church is a sacred place. This
is a holy place.
Please don’t wear shorts to Mass, nor
at
Adoration or anytime at
church.
Its disrespectful to Jesus Christ in the Holy
Eucharist.
When
we look at a Crucifix, we see evil done to the sacred body of Jesus
by our sins: He was stripped of His clothes except underwear, crowned
with thorns and nailed to the Cross. The shame of it all! Today, we
think nothing of seeing a man who wears only shorts. It’s immodest.
Where is the shame?
In
the resurrected and glorified body of Jesus, we see what are bodies
are meant to be in the future. After the resurrection, when John
touched Jesus, he cried out, “My Lord and my God.” He
recognized His body, as the body of God.
His
resurrected body, truly present in the Eucharist and moves us to
respect and give reverence to Jesus, as King and God. Jesus’ body
conquered evil, and it showed the depths of His love. And now He
gives us His resurrected Body to eat, that we may have life.
If
we are to fulfill our role in bringing about the kingdom of God, we
are to use our body for good and not evil. First, we give the
greatest reverence and respect to the Body of Christ, in the
Eucharist. Then we need to respect and give reverence to our own
body, and then, give respect and reverence to the bodies of others.
Because God dwells in you, your body is sacred. Your body is holy.
Your body is a temple of the Lord. Jesus body is most sacred.
Jesus body is most holy. Because Jesus body is God’s body.
That’s why bow, genuflect, kneel or prostrate before the body of
Christ.
The
Virgin Mary gives women an example of modesty. Men and women can turn
to Her to help them grow in purity. She is the Virgin Most Pure. St.
Joseph was the guardian of the Virgin Most Pure and protector of the
Holy Family. He can help men be protectors of the family, and an
example of a good father and husband. St. Joseph, as the terror of
demons, will help fathers to protect their families from evil.
On
Father’s Day weekend, I would like to address fathers. You are the
spiritual leaders and protectors of the family. It is your duty to
protect your family from evil and help them to get to heaven. Your
children look to you as an example. They look to you for protection,
for advice, and encouragement.
In the bulletin are resources
for you to help discuss pornography with your children. There are
free books given away per family. Also in the bulletin are web
addresses for Covenant Eyes, to help block images & detect
activity viewed on your children’s phones.
There
is a link to Detox from Porn, by Jason Evert. I encourage
parents to watch the video with your child, perhaps from eight grade
on up. It’s a fantastic video!
In
the bulletin are also inexpensive phone companies that do not require
a contract.
If
you know someone who may have an addiction to pornography, there are
resources in the bulletin too.
Men,
if you know of a friend or co-worker who you know who has a problem
with pornography, watch the video of Jason Evert, read the
information in the bulletin, so you can help them.
My
friends, turn to Mary and Joseph, who will help you fulfill your role
in bringing about God’s kingdom, and be ready for the hour of our
death. May we give respect and reverence to God in our body and the
bodies of others, because they are sacred temples, where God
dwells.“For we must all appear before the judgment seat of
Christ, so that each may receive recompense, according to what he did
in the body, whether good or evil.”