The readings today give us a glimpse into heaven and how Jesus’ commandment to love-- is necessary to obtain heaven.
In today’s Gospel Jesus gave His apostles and us a new commandment, called the “Commandment of love.” He said, “I give you a new commandment, love one another. As I have loved you, so you should love one another. This is how all will know you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
Jesus said, love one another, as I have loved you. How did He do that, but by laying down His life for them, and for us. And they responded with love.
All of the apostles, except John would lay down their life for Jesus, as martyrs. But, they attempted to kill John, by boiling him in oil, but he miraculously survived.
The apostles laid down their life for others, by preaching the Gospel, even when they knew it was cause their death. They loved their neighbor so much, they wanted them know and love Jesus and with Him in heaven.
There is no greater example of how we should love one another, than the Virgin Mary. At the moment of the annunciation, when the angel Gabriel appeared to Her asking Her to become the Mother of Jesus, She gave her fiat, Her Yes. The angel Gabriel told Mary that Her cousin Elizabeth was six months pregnant, but the angel didn’t ask Her to go to visit Elizabeth.
But, out of love of neighbor, Mary was concerned for Her cousin Elizabeth and the unborn John the Baptist. Out of love of neighbor, the Gospel tells us, She went in haste to visit Her cousin Elizabeth. Mary immediately responded because She understood Elizabeth would need help, since she was advanced in years and it was her first and only child.
The virtue associated with the Visitation is love of neighbor. While praying the Rosary, when we meditate on Mary’s action of thinking about her cousin Elizabeth before Her own needs, makes us want to respond to the needs of others out of love of neighbor.
Ladies, if you were a virgin and made a vow of virginity and if you knew you could keep the vow and still become a mother, wouldn’t you be enthusiastic and thrilled? And then immediately after you became pregnant, wouldn’t you want to tell others the wonderful news?
But, wait a minute. How could She? Imagine Her telling others, “Hey! Everyone! You will never believe what happened. An angel appeared to me and the Holy Spirit came down upon me and now I am pregnant with Jesus, the Son of the Father. I’m still a virgin and I am also the Mother of the Messiah!” If She would tell others, people would think She’s crazy.
If you were the Virgin Mary, and if you kept it to yourself, wouldn’t you think about preparing for the birth, perhaps making infant clothes and a baby blanket and telling Joseph to make a crib?
If you knew, Jesus, the Son of the eternal Father, had just come down in your womb, wouldn’t you spend extra time praying to Jesus in your womb and thanking God the Father? I suspect many of you would tell your friends and they would give you a baby shower.
Mary didn’t do any of these. Rather, Our Lady continuously prayed to Jesus inside Her, though She quickly went to visit Elizabeth. She was able to see God in others, whom She helped and prayed for.
Mary kept the secret of Her pregnancy to Herself and most likely didn’t even tell Joseph. She knew it was up to God to tell him how it happened. Only after Joseph went the trial of having to trust Mary, and not understanding how it could be, only then, did God send an angle to give him peace and understanding.
What young pregnant teenage girl would travel five days on a mule, spending 5 nights out along the side of the road, for the purpose of helping an elderly cousin who is pregnant and return home doing the same thing for another 5 days. Hot days, cold nights, little food, dusty roads, sleeping outdoors.
Scripture doesn’t say if Mary stayed until John the Baptist was born. But we know she stayed for three months, which would be about the same time he would be born. Mary certainly would not spend three months and then leave just before her cousin gave birth.
Mary’s love of neighbor is especially seen meeting Jesus on the way of the Cross and standing at the foot of the Cross. If people were beating your son, condemning him t be crucified and nailing Him to a tree, wouldn’t you try to stop them? Wouldn’t you yell at them and perhaps even curse at them?
But, not Mary, She prayed not only for the soldiers, the chief priests, and the crowd mocking Jesus, She prayed for all of us and offered everything as a sacrifice for our salvation. Out of love of God and love for neighbor, She endured it all.
How did Jesus love us? By laying down His life for us. And we are called to do the same, to lay down one’s life for another.
As we celebrate the resurrection of Jesus for 40 days until He ascended into heaven, we are reminded that by Our Lord’s death and resurrection, we can go to heaven.
His resurrection gives us hope for heaven. And we have hope that at the end of the world, we too will have a resurrected body just like Jesus.
We have hope if we lived a life of love and virtue, we will enter the joys of heaven, “where every tear is wiped away”. The Holy Rosary will help us to obtain the virtues we need, by praying it often meditating on the lives of Jesus and Mary.
Just think about heaven for a moment. There is no old age, no suffering, no pain, no tears, no heartaches, no cancer, no mourning, or wailing, no war, no disagreements, no disunity, no physical ailments, no arthritis and no death.
Rather there is joy, peace, love, unity and happiness. Our imperfect relationships on earth, become perfect in heaven. We get to know each other and love each other in a way beyond our imagining. Every question we wanted answered on earth-- will be answered in heaven. Everything we wanted to do in this life, we will be fulfilled and not just fulfilled, but in the most profound and incomprehensible way. As the Lord, said, “My ways are not your ways.” St. Paul said, we have “an everlasting home in heaven”. On earth, we suffer, we go through difficulties, and by doing so we learn to love, to forgive and to grow in virtue.
And we arrive in heaven we will see the beauty and glory of the Virgin Mary and understand more fully Her motherly care and concern for us. We will see how when we prayed the Rosary, not only did it help us to get to heaven, but many others. Praying the Rosary will have helped us love our neighbor, by assisting those we pray for, in their spiritual and temporal needs.
Speaking of how we love our neighbor, and how that affects our judgment, the book of Wisdom states, “Our good deeds go with us.” St. John of the Cross helps us to know what our judgment will be like. He said, “In the end, we will be judged on love.” In other words, how much we fulfilled Our Lord’s commandment of love, loving our neighbor--- will either be our glory and reward-- or our eternal loss.
When we share with others God’s gifts He has given to us--- we are practicing stewardship. For example, mowing yards for those who cannot do it themselves, stitching and sewing for others, to use our voice in singing, to smile at someone who we know could use cheering up. There is a lady I know who makes her own greeting cards by her artistic talent. She draws beautiful flowers, birds and animals and writes little notes inside. Her Christmas, Easter and birthday cards are always my favorite. She uses her ability to make people happy. We can give a compliment to a co-worker when they did a good job. To financially help a single mother who is struggling to make ends meet. To bake cookies or a meal to give to a neighbor. To help our neighbor move cattle. To donate vegetables from your garden. To send a sympathy card to someone who lost a relative. A few kind words of encouragement for someone who is discouraged. All of these things are acts of love. Stewardship is recognizing God’s gifts He has given to us and sharing them with others out of love for God and neighbor.
Finally, many people have a “bucket list,” important things they want to do before they die. I would like to suggest, we create a new and different kind of “Bucket Bucket list”. We trust everything we ever wanted will be given to us in heaven and in a more profound and unimaginable way.
Let’s get the largest bucket we can find, and fill it with acts of love and mercy and place our good deeds, kind words and rosaries we prayed in it, so that when we go to our judgment, when Jesus said, “How much did you love?”
Then we will hand him a giant bucket filled of love and overflowing with all the good things we did in our life and He will say to us, “Well done, good and faithful servant. Enter the kingdom of heaven.”
Today, let us entrust our good deeds, our merits, our prayers, our rosaries and everything to the Blessed Virgin Mary, for She will make sure, nothing we did in this life will be lost, but rather will be our reward and our glory.